Where to begin…well, my time in France included some of the most memorable experiences of my life, and now that part of my life has come to a close. Being at an international school, I was able to meet people from all over the world, which introduced me to a wide variety of new perspectives. I was amazed at how influential society can be on the way a person thinks or views the world. As young adults, there were some inevitable similarities that permeated across language barriers and differences in culture norms. Despite the different government or educational styles of our respective home countries, in the end we were all just people interested in learning about others, hesitant about a new world, and eager to find our place. The study abroad experience was the commonality that bonded us together, and allowed us to form friendships that have the potential to last a lifetime. Four months is short, but you get to know a person quickly when you see how they interact in a new environment. I spent more quality time with people in France then I have with some of my friends from back home that I’ve known for years. This experience really helped me open up as a person.
A lot of my international friends tell me that they think of Americans as hard workers, and very busy people. When I think about why that is, I realize that from early on, society has been telling us that hard work is the key to success. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with working hard, but I do think being too busy is a problem. In France I was able to dive into new endeavors with 100% of my energy and concentration because I made sure not to overbook myself. This semester I plan to devote myself to certain activities, and cut out a few commitments. It is unfortunate, but in my eyes it is necessary. In order to be balanced, I need time to relax.
Everyone always asks me, “What was the best thing about France?” Well, I have to say that it was the opportunity to truly step into a new culture and live in a new world. Each day was a learning experience. There was the occasional hurdle (such as staring at the oyster placed in front of me at dinner), but in general, the difference in culture was refreshing.
My favorite thing about France, and Europe in general, was the small town organization. I loved how quaint small towns were!
I miss France, but I also appreciate the opportunity I had, and can look back on four months of fond memories. My time in France has helped me understand myself, my country, and what it means to be an American. I have viewed Americans through a multitude of colored lenses, and each time I learned something new. I have come to realize just how fortunate I am.
I do hope to return to France someday, and as of now, I plan to return after I graduate. There is a program for Americans to teach English in French schools, and unless something else comes up, that is what I plan to do directly out of college. It would be a short-term gig, but would allow me to live in France again.
I don’t have a clue where life will take me, but it has been quite an adventure thus far, so I am ready to face any challenges that come my way. I gladly welcome new experiences, and live with the mentality that each day holds a new opportunity!
Thank you for reading and keeping up with my adventures, and I wish you all the best in the future =)
Now, for one last time, au revoir!
